Wow – what a weekend we had! No, we didn’t flit from holiday party to holiday party all weekend long. And, no, we didn’t enter the fray of frenzied shoppers at the mall.
Instead, we had Pajama Zone Sunday. And it was gooooood!
I can’t remember the last time we didn’t change out of our PJs all day – if ever. The operative word in that sentence, by the way, is “we.” Why? Because when I was single I had many a Pajama Zone Day. Hey, I was a busy girl during the week and sometimes the weekends were mine alone to relax, rejuvenate and, well, stay comfy!
But Vince usually is a go-go-go kinda guy and wants to get a lot of stuff accomplished on his day off. Probably it didn’t help that neither he nor I felt well this weekend. Are sinus headaches catching? Because he had one Saturday night and I had one on Sunday.
We didn’t start out deciding to stay in our PJs all day. We talked about what groceries we need to replenish the fridge and discussed the menus over the Christmas holiday when family and friends will be visiting. We talked about the odd gift or two we still need to purchase. And we talked about driving to CVS to pick up some more sinus headache medicine.
But none of that happened. Instead, I took a long nap and Vince had a chance to channel surf without me giving him “the eye.” And when I woke up, we reheated some leftovers and then watched a couple movies on cable. Can you say la-zy?
Now, this is not to say we didn’t accomplish anything. I mean, Vince worked long hours this weekend. And I did approximately 9,000 loads of laundry on Saturday. I even managed to get it all dried, folded and put away in the dresser or hung back up in the closet. In addition, I changed cat litter (ugh). I scrubbed sinks and toilets (double ugh). I replaced soap in soap dispensers and put new rolls of toilet paper on the spare roll spindles so no one in our home will ever have to say, “Hey! There’s no toilet paper in here!”
And I wrapped Christmas gifts until 2:30 in the morning. Well, I didn’t intend to wrap gifts until the wee hours of the morning, but I don’t really enjoy this task, so I just slogged my way through it until I was done.
Don’t get me wrong – I love pretty wrapping paper, bright bows and colorful ribbon and seeing all the gaily wrapped gifts under the Christmas tree. But I’m simply not a very good wrapper. I either cut the paper too short so the ends don’t meet and cover the box – or I cut the paper so long I end up having to lop off at least half a foot on either end so I can fold the paper and tape it closed. Nothing ever matches, especially the seams, so I tend to use wide ribbon to hide all my mistakes.
This is why I adore gift bags.
The one chore I did forget was to water the plants, as evidenced by the droopy ficus I spied in the dining room this morning before breakfast. So I took care of that little task after gulping my morning coffee and before racing out the door to get to work. Hope the ficus forgives me.
Other than leaving the houseplants thirsty, should we have felt guilty for having a Pajama Zone Sunday? No, I don’t thinks so. And I’ll tell you why.
We spend so much of our lives busily checking off all the things on our to-do lists or bucket lists or career lists. We feel badly if a day goes by when we haven’t accomplished all we set out to do that day. If we’re not moving forward, it’s bad. You can’t have a “stand still” day – or, heaven forbid, a “going backwards” kind of day.
True, forward momentum is a good thing and makes us feel as if we’re accomplishing something with our lives. But standing still for a moment can also be important.
All we have to do is hear about a tragedy like that in Newtown, CT, and we're stopped in our tracks. How many people heard the news and then wanted to hold their children or loved ones close and hug them and kiss them and tell them how much they are cherished?
Sure, we do that all the time. We kiss our loved ones goodbye and call out “Love ya!” as we head out to start our busy day – and we mean it – but sometimes it becomes rote. Maybe we’re distracted with what lies ahead or we’re thinking about that ever-lovin’ To-Do list. So “rote” doesn’t mean insincere. But it should never take a tragedy to make us realize how much we truly do love our family and our friends and that they are so much more precious than ticking off little boxes on our To-Do lists.
Vince and I spent a lot of time yesterday talking. We held hands practically all day long (well, except for when I was napping and he was channel surfing. Oh, and any time one of us had a potty break. Yeah, yeah, I know that should go without saying, but some people are very literal.) We didn’t just hurriedly discuss how we’re going to handle this situation or whether or not we’re going to attend that event and we didn’t spend those precious moments coordinating our schedules. Instead, we spent the day reconnecting.
And through this experience, we once again realized how much we love each other and how fortunate we are and how abundant the gifts are that God has given us.
So, while you don’t have to have a Pajama Zone day to come to these realizations, it can’t hurt. Go ahead – try it one of these weekends.
Just make sure your fridge is fully stocked and you don’t need to run to CVS for sinus headache medication. Because, believe me, as cute as you may think you look in them, no one is interested in seeing you in your hot pink footy pajamas. No. One.
(But, seriously, who knew you could even buy hot pink footy pajamas for grown-ups?)